I met a guy two months ago at a bar in Long Island, we communicated often, via text the majority of the time. When we’d text, it would be fun and flirty… but sometimes his text are very short. We finally went oout on a first date about a month ago, it felt like I knew him for a long time. It was great! Since then, however, I’ve only heard from him ONCE and of course it was via the damn text - over the course of that entire month. While I wanted to prove a point and not respond at all, the majority of my friends urged me to text back. So, I waited over a day to respond and ended up writing something cute but also very neutral. And he hasn’t responded! Why would a guy text me, out of the blue, and then not respond?
-I AM CONFUSED-
Dear Ms. Confused,
He was bored! That is the reason he text you for the heck of it. This guy did not have anything to do and unfortunately he is not in to you. My guess would be it was exciting for him to get to know you at the time (considering you did meet him at the bar, while drinking). However he is a guy who enjoys having random hookup every now and then. You said it yourself; it’s been mostly “fun and flirty.” If that’s something you think you can enjoy then keep going. But if you’re looking for the time, attention and companionship, instead of a "ONE NIGHT TEXT STAND", then you need to look elsewhere. Him texting you all the time when he finally do respond is so not personable and disrescpectfu. Because at what point can you two have a conversation via strictly texting to get to know about each other. IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!! Baby girl do not waste your time and keep it moving. SWEEP THE TRASH UNDER THE RUG and NEXT!!!!
